RelationshipS?

Looking that the title, well most of you would be able to guess wat i'm going to write for this episode of daily thoughts....LOL. Seen many people writing about how they feel about relationships and wat they think is the ongoing trend in it. Well i do have lots to share but i'm not sure how should i write them.
Here's some history of my love life( though i didn't get attached at all for 18 years). Must be real desperate.... you think so? haha : Okay, indeed i only like 2! person in this eighteen years of my life. Hmmm....got quite a bit of crushes but are gone faster then i thought. Haiz, thinking of it makes me sad, but nevertheless it's all part of me......so must preserve them in my mind. Good or bad, they are my memories and i will treasure them....hohoho...
Okay down to relationships.... As a matter of fact, i'm really confused. In the past, you can say that i'm very serious in everything i do. In other words i treat relationships really seriously. It's like if possible, my first Gf might well become my wife in the future. That's what i think in the past. But for now, i think it would be better to be involved in as many relationships as possible. Experience each and everyone of them as they come. Reason being, you would never know who is the right one for u. It might be hurting to know that your partner thinks of you as a prelude to his or her THE ONE. However as long as your partner treats you well and really give their best to make the relationship wonderful and enjoyable is basically enough. We all seek love from others dun we? Also, no one can be 100% sure from the beginning that the relationship will turn out okay and eventually leads to marriage. So we should try to learn as much as possible from every relationship and when we reach the right one i guess we will know. And that's what i think..... hohoho
Well, there's another question i'm thinking about. Is there really something called 'not a good match' in relationships? If you really love that person, should other things matter? Or should i say is there really someone in this world would well be our the ONE? I'm not sure, cos i believe it's never possible to find a perfect match in life. WE all have shortcomings, and our other half would have to bear with it. That's part of life isn't it?
Another thing would be.... What are the qualities that you look for in your GF or BF? Be it character wise, whether she's chio or is he handsome.....Does it really matter? Because in the end, both parties must see certain qualities in each other. If you like her, it doesn't mean anything AT ALL. Because you can't do anything if she has no interest at all. You can do watever you want, the result would still be the same. So basically, i guess, there are no 'trash' relationships... Cos it's really hard for two person to be together and to be willing to share each others' secrets, happiness and worries all together.
That is why, i would like to ask everyone who is in a relationship to really treasure what they have. Even if it didn't last long, it's a miracle you people actually got together. Does anyone here believe in Fate? I do.....